Online dating is bigger than ever, with lots of websites catering for pretty much everyone and everything they’re in to. There are even location-based cellphone apps you can download! As exciting and fun as it may be, it can have it can be a risky game to play and if you’re not careful you’ll end up attracting the wrong type of person, which might make you feel awful – especially if you’re putting yourself out there.
These are a few of the things you should bear in mind so that it can be the best online dating experience:
1 First of all, be sure of what you’re looking for. Whether you’re looking for a no-strings-attached hookup or something that could potentially be serious and long-term, make sure you’re on a site that’ll help you find that and make sure your profile reflects that too.
2 When putting your profile together, pay special attention to appearance. Remember it plays a role in catching someone’s attention. Choose a picture where you’re wearing a bold colour to make your image pop and lure in those admirers. Your style speaks to your personality and the first thing people will see is your profile picture, so try to keep it interesting but not for too over the top. You should also put together an alluring profile too – list some interesting hobbies and highlight your best qualities, but be honest. It helps to have some friends around to help as you put it together. They’ll help you choose your best pic, and remind you of some shining qualities you may not be aware of!
3 Choose a username that’s quirky and reflects who you are, but try not to go for something that’ll go over people’s heads or anything too sexual like ‘bigbooty’ – you might be giving off the wrong impression.
4 Using an online dating service often means that you’re interacting with people you don’t know so you should always consider your personal safety first. Use your Internet savviness to get as much information on the person as possible. Facebook is a great place to start but a quick google is likely to provide you with more information. Look out for anything that raises red flags and consider asking them for more information or alternatively abort mission. Should you decide they are worthy of a date, always make it a public place of your choosing. You want as much control of the situation as possible.
5 Don’t settle. If you’re looking for something a little more serious, take the time to wait for a guy who meets all of your requirements to show up. Just because you’ve decided to online dating, it doesn’t mean you won’t meet Mr Right while grabbing your morning coffee tomorrow morning – you’re just broadening your horizons!
6 We all want to impress on the first date. We suggest you really make an impression by brushing up on your communications skills. This could mean for you, becoming a better listener or becoming more self express. There is nothing worse than being misunderstood – especially on a date.
7 On a first date, you want to look and feel great, so wear something flattering that shows off your personal style. Keep your makeup simple and accentuate your best features. For an extra bit of edge, pick out a statement accessory that’ll make your date take notice. For some outfit inspiration, here’s our guide to dressing to impress on a first date!
