As South Africa celebrates Women’s Month, the film It Ends With Us arrives at a crucial time, shedding light on the pressing issue of Gender-Based Violence. Adapted from Colleen Hoover’s novel, this highly anticipated movie has sparked diverse reactions from critics.
Regardless of the mixed reviews, it’s impossible to overlook the significant and timely conversation it initiates about violence and its impact on women’s lives.
Gender-based violence affects women across generations, and this screen adaptation addresses the issue with sensitivity, leaving GBV survivors with a sense of hope. Lily’s vulnerability, particularly during her weakest moments, makes her both relatable and deeply human. Blake Lively’s portrayal of Lily as a survivor serves as a beacon of hope for those who may feel trapped with no way out. The film powerfully affirms that it is possible to break the cycle of generational trauma and choose a different path for ourselves and our children.
The character of Rylie, played by Justin Baldoni, adds a layer of complexity to the abuser’s role by showing how his own trauma influences his decisions. This portrayal underscores the toxic cycle of abuse while holding Rylie accountable for his actions, culminating in a crucial turning point when Lily chooses to prioritize her own well-being. A poignant moment arises in the delivery room when Lily questions how Rylie would feel if his daughter were subjected to the same abuse, marking a significant shift in the film's narrative and impacting the future of their daughter.
"It Ends With Us" challenges us to take responsibility for our choices and consider making different ones if our current decisions are harmful. I also appreciate that the film handles violence with care, avoiding excessive graphic content, which would otherwise necessitate a trigger warning. My hope for survivors of GBV is that they leave the film feeling empowered and inspired to make positive changes in their lives.
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